Episodes

It's so good to be back in the swing of things and to do a solo episode with you. The exercise I share with you in today's episode is one I did as I was starting to notice improvements in myself with my jealousy and I wanted to share it with you. You have to DO the work not just hear about it so make sure to to the show notes or to topself.com/evaluation and download the worksheet to use. You can save a blank one as a template and then just copy a new one for each time you have a jealous moment...

Ever wanted to get inside the mind of a couples therapist and ask questions? Well, in today's episode, I took full advantage of having the great couples therapist, Dr. Bruce Chalmer on and I asked some burning questions for you like: How to get your partner to go to therapy when they don't want to What's the first thing you would do if you were working with a couple with jealousy in the relationship Why couples get it wrong when they say their biggest issue is communication Bruce s...

Today I interview bestselling author, psychologist and happiness coach, Dr. Jisunny Fisher about how to face the fear of the unknown and unpredictable. Dr. Fisher talks about the human inclination towards avoiding pain over pursuing pleasure and the neural evolution of the human brain into three parts - reptilian, mammalian and human - and how specific fears are associated with each part. She walks you through the concept of identity, explaining the 'identity funnel' and how to rewire your sel...

Did you know, a women's body follows infradian rhythm? Well, better late than never on me getting this episode out but this is the final episode to wrap up the physical health month that was supposed to go out in January BUT... Jenny Swisher is a personal trainer, nutrition specialist, and health practitioner, and we have a great discussion about women's hormones, cycle syncing, and physical health. I learned so much from this episode and I think it's something all women should hear and be aw...

In today's episode I share a recent personal journey that intertwines physical health and emotional wellbeing, using my own 10-day detox diet as a parallel to overcoming jealousy. Its all about the power of choice. From the challenges of an incredible detox program to the challenges typically faced when overcoming jealousy. I share my experiences and introduce the concept of the 'jealousy reassurance loop' - a cycle, comparable to sugar addiction, that needs to be broken by making conscious cho...

He's a social media phenomenon and and author of the book "Blood Sugar Doesn't Lie", Dr. Ben Galyardt is my guest today. We share the same philosophy of... treat the root cause, not the symptom. You wont believe how much food is tied to not just your mood but perhaps some other things going on that have been bothering you. And, did you know, constant spikes in your blood sugar level can make you gain weight. I know weight gain might further you're negative thinking about yourself so throw those...

Did you know your food can affect your mood? I thought I was just in a bad mood. Turns out, it could be the food I ate. :) Go beyond your typical New Year's resolutions and redefine your relationship with food, your body, and your well-being. Our special guest, Tina Hong, an accomplished Executive Health and Wellness Coach and NLP mindset practitioner, shares the path for women seeking not just change—but renewal—in their personal and professional lives. We have a great chat about food and min...

What if you could decode the mysterious signals your body and mind send you every day? Together with mindset coach, Dr. Ashley Greer, we'll discuss how a clear mind can help differentiate between fear and intuition. As we walk you through the process of sitting with your emotions, expect to explore how your own thought patterns could reshape how you approach your everyday life. Did you know you can also improve your trust in your intuition? Ashely shares how you an do this by starting out with ...

Your emotions drive your actions, especially in relationships? In our latest episode, we sit down with Martina Booth, a relationship visionary and emotional artist, who's mastered the art of processing feelings and navigating emotional dependencies. Martina shines light on how jealousy in relationships stems from old wounds and the void we have within ourselves. In the episode she shares: her unique insights on the concept of 'ordinary trauma' and how it impacts our daily lives a vivid p...

Are you tired of being held hostage by jealousy and insecurity? Join me this week as I talk about the #1 thing you need to do to overcome your extreme jealousy. Learn about the power of change, and how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to personal growth and transformation. Discover the resilience within you as we discuss the importance of tenacity, the courage to keep going, even when the progression is invisible. Struggling with jealousy? Let's uncover the importance of celebrating ...

Have you ever felt like a fraud, despite your clear success and achievements? This week I'm joined by a leader of global test operations for NASA, the US Military, and Homeland Security, as well as keynote speaker and coach, John Mollura, to talk about imposter syndrome. Even when he received a commendation from the Department of Defense, John could not shake the feeling that he just wasnt good enough. He felt like a total fake. What's crazy is if you're a higher performer, you've probably felt...

In this week's episode I am joined by Adam Hill. A CEO, triathlete, speaker, and author who generously shares that the opposite of fear is not fearless, it's flow. Adam shares the Maffetone Method and how doing something at 80% of your maximum effort get you massive results and how to have a different relationship with fear. We also discuss: the dangerous notion of trauma comparison, emphasizing the importance of respecting our personal battles. how changing our relationship with fear c...

Ever felt burdened with an overdeveloped sense of responsibility, trying to control your relationships and often leaving you drained? In this episode, I talk about the damaging implications that control has on your relationship. Referencing the Adult Children of Alcoholics Laundry List, I delve into my own experiences to expose the exhausting effects of being overly controlling. I hate that sometimes "being controlling" is talked about as if its cool or makes you somehow sound above average or...

Struggling with intrusive thoughts and anxiety? You're not alone. Join us this week for a great conversation about anxiety and intrusive thoughts with special guest, Dr. Martin Seif, a distinguished clinical psychologist and anxiety treatment specialist. We talk about the intricate world of intrusive thoughts, drawing a clear line between fleeting and persistent intrusive thoughts. Dr. Seif sheds light on the paradox of thought suppression, explaining why efforts to evade certain thoughts only ...

Have you ever wondered how insidious jealousy can creep into our lives and relationships, causing havoc and distress? This episode opens the door to a heartfelt discussion with Heather and Roxanne, two insightful individuals who have experienced the bitter taste of jealousy and learned to navigate its complex landscapes. They bravely share their personal stories, tracing their path back to early experiences which laid the foundation for struggles with trust in later life. Through their candid co...

Join me on a heartfelt journey as we celebrate not only my birthday but a significant podcasting milestone — our 50th episode! It's a poignant moment that calls for reflection, and I promise you're in for a raw, honest, and deeply personal dive into my life. From reuniting with my absent father to facing my fears and anxieties head-on, there are many life lessons that I have learned and am excited to share with you. This episode is also a tribute to the most resilient woman in my world: my rem...

Needing constant reassurance is something very common in those who suffer from relationship jealousy issues and when we don't get it, we start searching for it elsewhere an 9 times out of 10, it's the wrong place. In today's episode, I share 3 wrong places you may looking for love and understanding. Awareness is key to turning down the volume on this jealousy thing so I'm bringing awareness to these three areas you may go seeking. Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can h...

International #1 best-selling author of "Strength of the Oak, Strength of the Willow", Andrew Anderson shares his approach in navigating life's ups and downs. Andrew shares inspiring insights on shifting perspectives from 'why is this happening to me?' to 'why is this happening for me?' and how to discover the hidden greatness in every situation. We dive deeply into the art of transformation, touching on deceit's role and outdated beliefs in personal growth. Andrew provides practical steps on...

Ever found yourself stuck at crossroads, unable to decide which path to take? The reality is, every day we are faced with decisions - some small, some life-altering. But here's the catch, the pain of indecision often surpasses the pain of making the 'wrong' decision. You may be held hostage by your own fear and doubt. Turns out, the 'wrong' decision made with the information and emotions at the time, can be the 'right' decision after all. In this episode, you'll discover how to tackle the daun...

Self-discovery can happen with just small minor shifts and this week, Nichole Lee, an identity + life transition coach AND holistic practitioner shares her insights into the delicate process of self-exploration, emphasizing the importance of a safe, non-judgmental space. Together, we navigate the potential triggers of solo exploration and affirm the power of partnership during these transformative moments. Nichole and I challenge you to carve out dedicated time for self-discovery, advocating for tweaks in your daily routines to encourage personal growth. Listen as we: unveil the role of bringing body intelligence to the forefront. explore the profound connection between our minds, bodies, and emotional healing. recognize how our habitual tendencies and implanted memories can keep us stuck discover how simple tools like visualization and meditation can release these blocks, leading to harmony. Prepare to be inspired, transformed, and fully engaged in this discuss…

Ever wondered why you don't trust your partner as much as yourself? Curious about the double standards you set in your relationship, often without realizing it? Tune in for an eye-opening discussion about trust dynamics in relationships. My deep dive is set to reshape your understanding of trust, insecurity, and jealousy. Why we give ourselves more liberty than we do our partners? I discuss the projection of our needs onto our partners and how this triggers an insatiable need for reassurance....

Are you ready to reignite the tingly energy of your inner masculine lover? That's precisely what this episode is all about, with our guest, Amy Lee Westervelt. Together, we address the habit of seeking external validation instead of harnessing internal energy and how to navigate the feelings of jealousy and insecurity that can arise in relationships. We also venture into the empowering realm of changing our inner voice. Get ready to tap into your inner masculine and create a protective and dev...

Today, we're thrilled to bring you Tony Dufresne, PhD, a voice of wisdom in the arena of women's empowerment and confidence. With his unique perspective as a father and a male coach in the world of women, Tony guides us through the systemic differences between the genders and sheds light on the expectations society places on them. His understanding of the female experience, through empathy and intuition, is truly insightful. In this discussion, Tony introduces three powerful tools: meditation, ...

If you're someone who's insecure, you may be self-centered in a way you haven't thought of before. You may think everything is about you. All the problems, anything that goes wrong, if someone is upset. In this episode, I challenge you to start being self-centered in a different way. in a way that better serves you and even your relationship. This month's episodes have been about being in the present and this one is no exception as today is a great day to turn your focus away from your partner...